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Leno Jean Pierre asked 2 months ago

👨‍👩‍👦 What Is the Cause of Many Divorces Nowadays ?

People fall in love with each other and develop a strong emotional and sentimental feeling that lead in a good relationship. After a while they decide to spend their entire life together and get married. But i realized that after a short period of time many of them break up, each one take its direction even if after already having kids. No one is willing to continue the relation, this situation is happening everywhere and leave many man or woman single ; lot of children are not living with both of their parents and make their education a little bit complicated. According to you what is or are the reasons of this quick divorces among couples ?

ogahilla replied 2 months ago

I think these days relationship and marriages are founded in money and may be material wealth. So when one finds that two of his expectations are not real he or she decide to desolve the relationship. And also most fights between couples is due to misunderstanding in use of money, that eventually leads to divorce.

Francisco replied 2 months ago

They all are Sluts and parasites Agents of the State, Hypergamous Thots and prostitutes…let the virus get rid off these Feminist CoronaThots..Any man today in relationship is dragging and feeding an opened stop loss,a fucking SupraSimp Beta loser☠️

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Jackson Mugarura answered 2 months ago

Love for money and dishonesty are the major causes of this. People’s greed for money has spilled out of control and they can now do anything in order to get money. This is blamed for many divorces and family breakups.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 2 months ago

True, divorce rate is rising in Indonesia too. Most of them are young couple whose marriage is only 3-5 years. Economic hardship has been stated as the primary cause of divorce anywhere. Although in may ways it is true, I believe that lack of understanding between the husband and wife is the cause of divorce. Inability to handle pressure, lack of patient and long-term perspective also complicated the problem further.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Money and a man’s inability to satisfy a woman’s sexual urge. Many couples have separated or divorced legally because the financial responsibility was left to either the man or the woman, but, in most cases divorce happens when the responsibility is left to a womans side.
Secondly, many husband and wife have divorced because the man cannot perform well sexually as he suppose, so this has resulted to divorce.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Money and a man’s inability to satisfy a woman’s sexual urge. Many couples have separated or divorced legally because the financial responsibility was left to either the man or the woman, but, in most cases divorce happens when the responsibility is left to a womans side.
Secondly, many husband and wife have divorced because the man cannot perform well sexually as he suppose, so this has resulted to divorce.

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Edward Duffy answered 2 months ago

Communication is an issue and I think the world is such a busy place that couples do not spend much alone time. There are a lot of activities for kids to do these days and parents tend to run around to multiple events for their children.

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David Matlala answered 2 months ago

The main problem is that people marry for the wrong reasons. They marry for security and money. When the security and the money are threatened or are no longer there, the marriage falls apart.
What am I going to get out of this marriage is the typical question being asked. Marriage has become a partnership as in business. When the business fails, nobody tries to rebuild it, it’s everybody for himself/herself.

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Shane Collins answered 2 months ago

I think people value to many other things and therefor putting strains on marriages. Sometimes I also feel that a lack of respect and support also have a huge affect on how well marriages lasts now a days.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 months ago

Yes Nowadays people doesn’t marriage by love, money is the first thing that is seeing,and when there is no longer money every thing fall apart. After money there are several others factors that can be mentioned too like sexual satisfaction, inability to handle pressure, lack of understanding, inability to conceive etc…

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Gareth White answered 2 months ago

It is too easy to get married and also too easy to get divorced. People don’t seem to hold it in the same regard as they use. Peoples values have changed over the past 20 years especially.

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Myriam Pierre answered 2 months ago

Finances and other reasons like lack of communication, the saying that you have married a stranger no matter how long you dated them and then got engaged the fact that also there is a lot of infidelity out there too.I also wish to add too that the Church is also responsible for these problems leading to divorce.For they continue to pressure people into marriage by stating ft hat the Lord has someone for you no matter what and too that God can make the marriage work even if either party just is very uncomfortable around the other.These are my takes on why that is happening everywhere today.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

High divorce rate is as result of financial instability in many homes and man’s inability to perform very well sexually.

Ramachandran Suppan replied 2 months ago

Gone the day joint family’s where father mother and all other brothers and sisters stay in a same house . Now the family size becomes very small but the divorce rate becomes very high . Now more and more ladies are professional and their income is higher then the men. The sense of understanding or respect elders becomes very low causing conflict in a family leading to misunderstanding and finally to divorce.

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Muda Markus Dolopoto answered 2 months ago

Couples divorce because they are too selfish, do not want to sacrifice for the better world, better next generation.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Any relationship or marriage that was not founded in true honesty is bound to crash to the floor. Many marriages are crashing or divorced because it was not founded on love rather money,therefore, the high rate of divorce home is as a result of deceit or comorflarge love.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 months ago

The lack of love is one of the reason that leads many people to the divorce. If you truly love your partner, you will accept everything and face any circumstances to stay with him. The conditional love has taken the place and leave several person single.

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Steinar Kloverod answered 2 months ago

Lack of time to eachother is a main reason for divorces.  Both persons in a marriage have to work full day to have enough money for their daily life and to pay bills.  
They get tired and the children are in school and kindergarden all day and every one in the family is tired and have no energy when they come home in the afternoon or evening.  Then they start to quarrel about things in their daily life.  The things I now have mentioned will often result in a divorce.
Sometimes the persons in a marriage finds another person to love and then they split up.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 2 months ago

Mr. Suppan’s answer got it right in describing the family characteristics in this age. Currently, the young woman and man delayed their marriage until they are financially independence. After marriage, they limit their children to a maximum of two child. And unfortunately, this group of young people (who manage to get marriage and build conventional family) is getting smaller especially in the developed country. If this situation continue, when this young people get old, the community as a whole will be lacking of young generation and it cause demographic burden.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Divorce has become order of the day. I think what causes divorce is more than what we can here. Is different from home to home.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 2 months ago

There is nolonger love and affection anymore, people are only looking for just one thing, money. Some are doing it for good reasons I must say, like a man to cater for the ever increasing cost of living nowadays and school fees for children. But this has left very little room and time for the family leaving it vulnerable breaking up.
 

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Many factors are responsible for divorce. Inpatient is the cause of divorce,lack of trust and also financial burden. The level of divorce in western world is so alarming.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 months ago

Another factor that play a role in Nowadays divorces is the infertility of a man or the woman. The first purpose of many people in marriage is to have at least one child or plus. But when a man or woman is unable to give child,in most of cases it lead to the separation of the couple.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 months ago

Cause of divorce this days, is lack of respect from the woman, cheating among the couples

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 months ago

Yes, cheating on partner is not something to forget, it has caused many divorces nowadays, another one that has to be mentioned is the lack of patience and understanding between partners.

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Eli Davis Keinamura answered 2 months ago

Diseases .if one partner gets a dangerous disease , like stroke, cancer or an accident and that you cannot work again.Most couples run back to their parents and wait for other men to take them.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 months ago

Extramarital affairs are a pretty obvious reason why people get divorced. Infidelity changes your marriage, it erodes trust and leads to a breakdown in communication. Sooner or later infidelity usually catches up with you which is why it is one of the leading causes of divorces.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 2 months ago

Hi Leno, what are extramarital affair and infidelity? Can you give an example?

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adharad answered 1 month ago

Egoism and unwillingness to accept the lack of a partner is the cause of divorce in my region. Maybe if we can accept the lack of a partner, divorce can be avoided. Because marriage is a relationship of knowing each other and accepting her as our life partner. What do you think??

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

The cause of divorce is as a result of cheating and lack of money

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 3 weeks ago

There are several factors. I’m going to focus on money.
In a couple, if there is not a true love, the money can cause the divorce. Many relationships are based on money, the partner has one purpose, have money to take care of himself and his family or something else. The husband can have money in one moment in time, but when the situation turn bad, and become broke, his wife can immediately change the way she used to behave towards his husband. Everything will start there then lead to the separation of the couple.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

Cheating and not being truthful to your partner

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

Most a times, cheating as contributed to many divorce in the world,  and as well not being truthful

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 weeks ago

Some a times, infertility from the woman or impotent from the man causes divorce in many marriage today.

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