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Ahmad Khasan asked 1 month ago

🛌Do You Think Sleeping in Separate Beds Can Help a Marriage?

Hi.

Sharing the same bed is the common characteristic of a marriage.

But, recently, there is a growing trend of sleeping in separate beds for marriage couple, especially in developed countries.

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However, in a developing country like Indonesia, sleeping in separate beds is the first indication of a broken marriage.

What do you think about this? Does sleeping in separate beds good for marriage? What is your personal experience?

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23 Answers
Jackson Mugarura answered 1 month ago

I think this is the worst thing to do in marriage. It can only increase the rate of marriage break ups. You see when people has some misunderstandings in marriage, it can be easily sorted out in bed. But when beds are separate, such simple misunderstandings will never be sorted and will only grow to break the marriage.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

It’s one of the ridiculous things that a Man can do in marriage. It has created many issues and divorces,never try it even if there is some issues between you and your partner.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 1 month ago

It’s a big mistake and should be mistaken for a solution to any family problem. It’s not a solution anyhow

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Jackson Mugarura answered 1 month ago

The best bed should not be too big, it should measure like 4×4′ so that there should not be big space separating married people when they sleep. They should be able to feel one another when they sleep. This will help in a way to create cohesion and keep them together.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

As you rightly said, it is a sign that the marriage is at the verge of collapse. To me any marriage or married couples who are not having problems in their union should avoid that separate bed entirely.

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Eli Davis Keinamura answered 1 month ago

The main intention of marriage is sex and children.sex comes first before children.Marriage without sex cannot stand .For me I cannot sleep in different bed in the same house with my wife.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

Sleeping in a separate bed has a side effect in a marriage, that’s to say that couples are unite to sleep on one bed, not in a separate beds

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

No no and no, it is not good to sleep in separate beds with your wife or husband. Couple’s issues are most of the time resolved on bed.

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adharad answered 1 month ago

I can’t answer this question yet because I am single. Maybe there are wedding experiences from you from different countries? Let me know ^^

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Edward Duffy answered 1 month ago

I have never tried this as I have always slept in the same bed as my wife.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 1 month ago

Leno — What kind of problems you usually solved during bedtime with your wife?
 
Adharad — What do you think about it? It does not need to reflect your personal experience.
 
Edward — Me too. It looks a little strange to me when a married couple sleeps in a separate bed.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

Is not good for husband and wife to sleep in a separate bed

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Shane Collins answered 1 month ago

For a married couple to sleep apart in separate beds just sounds like the worst decision you can make that may even help the marriage fall apart completely. I think married people need to be as close as possible and sleeping in different beds may just make the gap bigger. I do not think it is a good idea.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

For many married people, nighttime means curling up in a bed shared with their spouses,but opting for separate beds may also help spouses get better sleep and alleviate marital problems. Separate bed can benefit quality of sleep ; however many couples still fear the nighttime split, sleeping in separate beds can kill intimacy, if you don’t have any point of contact with you spouse, it’s very easy to lose any sort of sense than you are just a Co parenting working team. It’s a sign of loveless, and sexless union. There is even term for it “sleep divorce “.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

It won\’t help at all even if it allows each one to have a good sleep. I don\’t encourage anyone to have such thoughts.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

Sleeping in a separate bed will more harm to a relationship. It is absolutely wrong to use separate bed in the same room not talk of different rooms.

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adharad answered 1 month ago

I agree with you, Leno. In Indonesia, a sign of divorce is separation of beds other than fighting

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adharad answered 1 month ago

I agree with you, Kenneth. I think it’s a sign of divorce. It is a pity a husband and wife do that

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 4 weeks ago

Sleeping in a separate bed can not help couples

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 4 weeks ago

Sleeping in separate bed has a couples can not make marriage work

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

Couples sleeping in a separate bed, I don’t think it can help a marriage.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

It can not help a marriage

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 3 weeks ago

I don’t appreciate it. It won’t help to maintain a good relationship with partners.All suspicions will start there.

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