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Leno Jean Pierre asked 1 month ago

👩‍👦Will You Accept to Marry a Woman Who Has Already Kids With Another Man?

Many people don’t accept to marry a woman who has already kids with another Man but there’s always an exception in everything in life. Some Man can accept it for love or another reason they have to go relationship with a woman who has already one or more than Two kids with her. Will you accept to go in such a relationship until marriage ?

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Gareth White answered 1 month ago

Personally no I couldn’t accept that. I dont think I could commit fully so wouldnt wish to get involved and play with emotions.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

I have seen many people doing it but the relationship went worse most of the time because of the kids. Some women can even return to their first love where she had had kids.

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Gareth White answered 1 month ago

Yes I think it would take a strong an to be able to take someone else’s kids on. I would be concerned I couldnt love them the like my own.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

I personally can’t try it. How will I marry a woman with kids, who will marry those with out kids.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 1 month ago

Nope. I have already married a great woman. I can’t imagine myself marrying another woman, let alone marrying a married woman with kids.

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Gareth White answered 1 month ago

Well technically I wouldn’t marry them anyway because its not something I believe in. But I wouldn’t get involved with anyone who already has children.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 1 month ago

That is true, Gareth. When a man married a woman who already has children, he should take the burden of her past too. If he is not greater than her past, then his marriage would be challenging. If you can bear that burden, it is best not to get involved at all.

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Eli Davis Keinamura answered 1 month ago

When l had attained marriage age,from 24 to 30 years.It would be difficult to Mary a woman with kids,it was like a taboo,but as time goes on  I do not find any problem marrying a woman with kids.most of them learnt something from having a kid.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

I will not marry them, because is not what I wish my self

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

Not at all, Based upon what i have seen, it never last long time ,but it’s not the reason i won’t do,the situation might be different from one person to another.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 1 month ago

Definitely not. I can’t marry a woman that has children.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

I will not make such decision, however many people have married woman who has already kids with another Man and live comfortably,
There is not wrong with that.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 1 month ago

Yes, I have no issue with this, as long as we love one another. Many people have married such women and have gone on to make good families.

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Gareth White answered 1 month ago

That is true Jackson and like this community demonstrates, we are all different, have different views and opinions and that’s what makes us collaborate so well.

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Edward Duffy answered 1 month ago

At present I am married and I have no intention of remarrying but if the need arose and the right lady came along then it would be a possibility. As I said at present there is no intention to do so at present.

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Steinar Kloverod answered 1 month ago

I would accept to marry a woman with a child or children from a former marriage if this is right for both of us.  Now I am old so if I should marry again it would be with a woman with grown up children.  I think many of you have a very conservative opinions in this matter although you probably are much younger than me.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 1 month ago

Mr question is a matter of self opinion, some can accept it, and some won’t. I personally in some circumstances i will accept to do it if i really love her and she feels the same love to me.

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adharad answered 4 weeks ago

To me marriage is a sacred thing. Marriage is also when I am in love with her and she loves me. When I fall in love I will accept her even though she has children with other man. Because love cannot be forced and love is pure feeling ^^

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 4 weeks ago

I can do it in some situations. It won’t be a crime lol.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 4 weeks ago

No, I don’t think I will like to marry someone who already have kids

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

i will not like to marry someone who already have kids

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Ahmad Khasan answered 3 weeks ago

Hi, Kenneth.
 
I agree with you. I will never marry a woman with kids. Fortunately, I have already a married man, with soon to be a father of two sons.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 3 weeks ago

I’m happy for you Ahmad,  your wife pregnant with twins? That a big respect in our tradition. Here you are respected so much and given another name ” Salongo” meaning father of twins. It’s a respectful name.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 3 weeks ago

Like I said it’s not an issue to me but I don’t intend to marry another wife in my life.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 3 weeks ago

No, I can not.

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Jackson Mugarura answered 3 weeks ago

It’s like adding another problem to your life but some do it and I too can do it for a reason. If I love the person, there’s no big reason than love for someone. It’s enough.

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David Matlala answered 3 weeks ago

I’m happily married and wouldn’t exchange it for anything, but if I was not , and some suitable person came along with all that I feel is good, then I will marry her with whatever baggage she brings with her. If it really feels right, most of the time it is right.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 3 weeks ago

Yes, it is right and it is not a bad idea,if You really love your partner you can marry him even if she has already children with her. Most of the time things doesn’t work out the way we expect and you have change to make another start.

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Ahmad Khasan answered 3 weeks ago

Hi, David.
 
I am glad to hear that. I wish you and your family lasting happiness. Also, if we have to marry a woman with a child, we have the responsibility to “marry” her child too.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 weeks ago

No, I will not

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 weeks ago

I will not marry a woman kids, according to our tradition, if they children she begot from another grew, the will take away from the husband’s house.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 weeks ago

I can do it if i really love her, regardless of whatever people may think, i won’t care about it, what matter is our relationship.

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Kenneth Ogbonnaya answered 2 weeks ago

Not at all. When there’s many women out there who has not given birth.

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Leno Jean Pierre answered 2 weeks ago

Each one has its own opinion about this question, it is up to you to make your choice. For me it can be possible.

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adharad answered 2 weeks ago

Yes, I will accept women who already have children if she is my soul mate.
A couple who loves each other will surely accept their partner’s strengths and weaknesses.
That’s a good thing

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